How to Talk to a Guy You Like

We are all trying to avoid this
situation...

By now, we are sure that you have realised we have all found our very own special someone's at the gym ... Only one problem ...  They don't know we exist! *sigh* Like many girls we find it so HARD to make that first move! After all, no girl wants to get rejected!  So how do we get them to notice us?

Simple, start a conversation with them *duh! Okay, so that's not so simple after all. No one wants to stand around making awkward conversation.  That would be sheer torture for the guy & yourself. We, at the blog, did a little research (after all every good plan needs to be researched)! We've found a few tips on how to get that conversation going!

Tip #1: Get the boy to notice YOU!

Unfortunately ladies there's no way around this one ... If you are blessed like us, take a wing woman (or 2) and "accidentally" bump into him and strike up a conversation. Just make sure its you he notices and not your friends!

Tip #2: Get that Convo Going 

Get him to talk about himself. Guys, like any other person, love talking about themselves ask about his favorite team, or how he stays in such good shape. Remember to ask open-ended questions after all we want this conversation to lead somewhere - not fall flat after a yes or no answer!

Tip #3: Laugh

Every guy likes a girl that smiles! So why not use it to your advantage?  Add little jokes into your conversation and laugh at his jokes.  After all ladies, laughter is the best medicine!

Tip #4: Don't Be a Convo-Hog

Its normal to talk a lot when you nervous, just ask us! Boys on the other hand, might see this as rude and you're not letting him have his say. Just remember that it would also be awkward to just stand there and listen to him. Find the balance ladies.

Tip #5: Flirt! Flirt and Flirt some more!

Let the guy now you're interested! So if you're interested flirt. Make eye contact, smile or dust a little imaginary "dust" of his shoulder. Just make sure your flirting is fun and harmless - so try not to over-do it. After all you don't want to try and lead on a guy that is totes not interested in you!

Serve all these tips on a plate of self-confidence. Don't go in and try to make the guy fall head over heels for you - your aim should be to be the nicest, friendliest version of you. You don't wanna be known for anything else other than being a genuinely nice person. *GULP* gonna rack up some confidence and try these out the next time we see our guys at gym. Let us know if you have any tried and tested ways to catch your crushes eye!

* Much Love and Peace*

- @Jackey_101