Our Fairytale

Just 3 everyday princesses looking for a fairytale...even if it involves a lil stalking...

Wednesday, 5 March 2014

Sshh Don't Tell Anyone But...

We do it when we’re bored, we do it when we’re angry and we do it as an act of bonding but when we’re finally caught doing it – we’re labelled for life! And it usually starts off a lil something like this: “Omg! So have you girls heard who Nik is dating now? I think it’s that girl from Cardies!” “What?! I knew it! Remember last week I told you I saw them at the movies. But I heard his ex is..."

                                          That’s right ladies, I'm talking about GOSSIPING!

We all have those "o-m-g she said what" faces...

We all have a best friend that we can’t help but share all our juiciest stories with and there’s no harm in doing that…is there?

Gossiping is not as straightforward as we like to think. Many times we fail to realize that when a person tells us not to tell ANYONE, they probably don’t mean anyone EXCEPT for your inner circle. That’s often where the lines become blurred and how the story travels.

Although it is a good stress reliever and makes for some good conversation, gossiping is a very dangerous thing. Above hurting those involved, you could also ruin your own reputation.One of the worst things about gossiping is that often we don’t even realize what we’re doing or done, until it has come back to our ears and is too late.

So what's the solution to gossipping?

So how do we find a solution to this problem?  It’s simple really. If you don’t want it spreading like wild fire, then don’t light the match. Do it for your own good - because once you have said it, you never know who had labelled you a gossiper for life...

As always, love and peace my darlings!

-          @Smurfett_Li

Friday, 28 February 2014

For Those of Us Who Have Sisters...

'A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life.'

Isadora James

This weekend just enjoy your sister (or best friend)...

...And #HappyFriday

Wednesday, 19 February 2014

Life is like camera...

I came across this inspirational pic. And when you read the words, you realize just how much life is like a camera...

Happy Wednesday,beauties!

And while life is going on remember to SMILE...

* Love & Peace *
- @CarrieKup

Monday, 17 February 2014

Dear You...

We came across this beautiful letter titled, "Dear Future Lover Of Mine, I Hope I Don’t Meet You Anytime Soon" by Katrina Tamondong. It's raw. Honest. And simply beautiful all at the same time. It's a bit long of a read but totally worth it..

If the past valentine's day got you down, this one is definitely for you...

"Dear You,

I don’t know your name. I don’t know who you are or where you are or when we will ever meet. I don’t know whether or not you are already in my life somewhere. I don’t even know if you exist in this lifetime. I’d like to believe you’re walking this earth someplace, but sometimes I’m not sure if I even believe in the idea of fate and romance anymore. Maybe you can save me from myself.
If you are in this lifetime and on this planet though, I hope I don’t meet you anytime soon. I have a lot to learn and I will probably hurt you, because I don’t know yet that you are the one who will make me happy.
I’ve been through a lot. But while I wish you could have been there with me, I know you will be proud of me because of how strong I turned out to be and all the things I made it through without you. See, I had to be alone for a while so I’d know what I’m capable of. And so I’d appreciate having someone like you more.
I like being single right now because all my time is mine. I need to be single for a while so I will not regret not having this kind of freedom in the future. When I’m yours, I’ll be completely yours because I had this time to be mine.
But sometimes I miss being in love. There are days when I wish you can get here faster just so I can have the kind of love that I’ve been waiting for since what feels like forever. But I guess it’s better that you’re not here yet because I don’t know how to be with you right now. I’ll probably say a lot of really stupid things and scare you away.
You won’t just the love of my life, you will also be my best friend in the world. I’d always thought of all my old loves as best friends at the time, but I don’t think I ever really knew what that meant. I love that I will be able to tell you anything and everything and know that you will be the one person in the world who understands.
We won’t always get along and we will more-than-possibly get into some really ugly fights, but I know that in the end, we can make it through because nothing is more important than learning and growing together.
We are probably different people with diverse interests, and that’s a good thing. We will make time for what is important to the other because we like making each other happy. Of course, there will be things that we enjoy doing together. We will spend some days curled up with a blanket and books or popcorn and a good movie. Braveheart will always be a favorite between us, and reruns of FRIENDS will take up some of our lazy Sundays. But we will spend most of our time going around the world together, seeing places we’ve only once dreamed of traveling to.
We both love to talk and laugh, and we will spend a lot of our time getting to know each other. Even when we’ve been together 20 years, we will always find something new about the other or reminisce about the people we once had to be to get there. And while I will probably roll my eyes at your jokes, I will also smile just because it’s so cute how you tried to tell the punch line.
You’ve probably loved a girl (or more) before me, and that’s okay. I’m sorry though if you’ve gotten hurt and I wasn’t there to make you feel better. I’ve been in love before you, too, and I’ve also gotten my heart broken and feel like nobody could really understand. It will take a long time before I can let anyone else in again, and maybe you feel the same way. It will be better to find each other after going through all that, just so we will both know how to not take being in love for granted.
We’ve both become better people separately, something I will always be thankful for. And because of all the pain we have to go through before we meet, we will both realize then that we deserve that happiness and we deserve each other.
I don’t know what you look like but I know you have kind eyes and a genuine smile. I don’t know what you do for a living but I know that you will have time for me. I don’t know you, but I know that you can give me hug when I’m down, hold my hand for no reason and kiss me just because you love me.
There’s a possibility though, that you don’t exist, and I’m writing this letter for no one. But in spite of all the cynicism I’m entitled to, I have to believe that you’re out there somewhere. I have to believe that all the heartache I’d ever had to endure will someday lead me to you. I have to believe that God created you because He knew I would need you. And while I know I’m a complete person on my own, I have to believe that someone like you exists, someone who might not complete me, but can make life better. More beautiful. More colorful. A man who can make me believe in love again.
I don’t know who you are or if I’ll ever find you, but I wish with all my heart that you’re out there, waiting, just like I am.
I know that someday I will find you. In this lifetime, or the next, I will find you.
Yours (someday),

 * Love & Peace *

- @CarrieKups

Friday, 14 February 2014

Happy Valentines Day!

So is love in the air?

Or maybe you are having a Sheldon moment...

V-day got you feeling like this?
While the air is indeed made up of nitrogen, oxygen, and carbon dioxide, you are made up of sugar, spice, and everything nice. So if today didn't turn out as you wanted (you know with that cutey-pute-ty bringing you a rose), don't lose your niceness. You still have a lot to be grateful for - family, friend & of course us!

So #KeepCalm and...

Lots of *Love & Peace *


Wednesday, 12 February 2014

How to Talk to a Guy You Like

We are all trying to avoid this
By now, we are sure that you have realised we have all found our very own special someone's at the gym ... Only one problem ...  They don't know we exist! *sigh* Like many girls we find it so HARD to make that first move! After all, no girl wants to get rejected!  So how do we get them to notice us?

Simple, start a conversation with them *duh! Okay, so that's not so simple after all. No one wants to stand around making awkward conversation.  That would be sheer torture for the guy & yourself. We, at the blog, did a little research (after all every good plan needs to be researched)! We've found a few tips on how to get that conversation going!

Tip #1: Get the boy to notice YOU!

Unfortunately ladies there's no way around this one ... If you are blessed like us, take a wing woman (or 2) and "accidentally" bump into him and strike up a conversation. Just make sure its you he notices and not your friends!

Tip #2: Get that Convo Going 

Get him to talk about himself. Guys, like any other person, love talking about themselves ask about his favorite team, or how he stays in such good shape. Remember to ask open-ended questions after all we want this conversation to lead somewhere - not fall flat after a yes or no answer!

Tip #3: Laugh

Every guy likes a girl that smiles! So why not use it to your advantage?  Add little jokes into your conversation and laugh at his jokes.  After all ladies, laughter is the best medicine!

Tip #4: Don't Be a Convo-Hog

Its normal to talk a lot when you nervous, just ask us! Boys on the other hand, might see this as rude and you're not letting him have his say. Just remember that it would also be awkward to just stand there and listen to him. Find the balance ladies.

Tip #5: Flirt! Flirt and Flirt some more!

Let the guy now you're interested! So if you're interested flirt. Make eye contact, smile or dust a little imaginary "dust" of his shoulder. Just make sure your flirting is fun and harmless - so try not to over-do it. After all you don't want to try and lead on a guy that is totes not interested in you!

Serve all these tips on a plate of self-confidence. Don't go in and try to make the guy fall head over heels for you - your aim should be to be the nicest, friendliest version of you. You don't wanna be known for anything else other than being a genuinely nice person. *GULP* gonna rack up some confidence and try these out the next time we see our guys at gym. Let us know if you have any tried and tested ways to catch your crushes eye!

* Much Love and Peace*

- @Jackey_101

Monday, 10 February 2014

What Makes You Feel Alive?

" I want to live, not just survive."

What makes you feel this way about life? Travel? Friends? Your job? We, three, are still figuring this one out. If you are one of the lucky ones that have already figured it out, let us know @Fairytales_Blog

What will you be doing to live life to the fullest?

- @CarrieKups